With heavy hearts and deep gratitude for her life, we announce the peaceful passing of Arlene Joy Simmons on May 28, 2025, at the age of 86.
Arlene was born on October 28, 1938, in Oakland, California, and lived nearly her entire life in California before moving to Texas to be closer to her sons and grandchildren. She especially loved the beach in Santa Cruz, California and over the past 2 years, she also grew fond of the Texas hill country.
At the age of 38, Arlene entered college and earned her bachelor’s degree from Cal State University with Summa Cum Laude honors. She went on to complete paralegal school and dedicated 25 years of service as a Superior Court clerk for Contra Costa County. Her passion for justice, knowledge, and civic life reflected her deep patriotism and belief in the American ideal.
Arlene was known for her intellectual curiosity and strong opinions—she loved discussing politics, attending the theater, and ballroom dancing. She also loved shopping, cooking, and always made everything from scratch—her dishes were as elegant and memorable as she was. And no matter the occasion, Arlene always looked “fabulous”.
She shared a home in Walnut Creek with her sister Diane for over 40 years. Together, they hosted fantastic dinner parties where everyone was welcome. They built a home that was always open—whether for family visiting from afar or for friends in need of a place to stay.
She is survived by her sons, Jonathan William Simmons III (Jan) and Jeffery Robert Simmons (Pam); her grandchildren, Sean Simmons (Morgan), Jake Simmons (Lauren), Carley Hershey (Alex), Calla Keating (Sascha), Cami Simmons, Sam Simmons (Avery) and Jon Simmons; and her great-grandchildren, Price, Emory, and Shepard Simmons. She is also survived by her loving sisters, Diane, Carol, and Lori. She was preceded in death by her sister, Christine.
A Celebration of Life will be held at the Simmons house in Dripping Springs, Texas, on June 21st at 11am. Another will take place later this summer in California for family and lifelong friends.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Arlene’s name to the Tunnel to Towers Foundation or the Wounded Warriors Project, two organizations that reflect her patriotic values and compassion for others.
Though she is no longer with us in person, Arlene Joy Simmons will remain forever in our hearts—cherished, remembered, and deeply loved.
“Arlene proudly flew the American flag—at her home, on her car, and in her heart. Her love for this country was constant and deeply sincere.”